Tuesday, August 31, 2010

HUGE update!!

Hi lovely ladies!! I'm back with some news.

So this past week, I met with a potential SD for two nights in a row... was supposed to meet for a 3rd, but he left town early for god knows why. Anyways, that was a very interesting and fun two nights. He's in his mid 30's and I'm very attracted to him as a person (we have tons of fun together), but not so much sexually... although I do like kissing him. And I love the way he smells. He wined and dined me and there's a really funny story (let's just say I can't go back to that hotel bar). However, although he said he wanted to "commit" to me in an arrangement and he quite clearly wanted to have sex with me, he didn't take care of his part and instead left town early without even telling me. Ugh. That's all I have to say. Granted, I may have handled the sugar situation on my part a little roughly. I switched into business mode and it may have been too cold. I hope he contacts me again when he's back in town though because we just get along together. He would be a nice... I don't know - friend? Occasional fling? Definitely not a legit sugar daddy since even the sugar he was supposedly offering is not anything incredibly substantial, but well... I suppose he has received the fun guy discount. We'll see.

Okay.... so there's another potential SD. And he's sort of old. Oh, what the hell, he's just straight up old. 53. He looks it too. He's very, very nice and completely enamored with me. After our first lunch, he told me that he definitely wanted to enter an arrangement with me starting as soon as possible and when the valet brought my car up, he gave me a hug and handed me a wad of cash. I counted it... it was $780. For a one hour lunch. He's offering in the neighborhood of 6k a month, plus shopping when we travel (and there's a Vegas trip planned in October with another sugar couple). He's very busy with time so we would meet once a month and I'm pretty sure it would only be for a few hours. This is such an amazing opportunity. He's legit, kind, and very nice. The classic sugar daddy. It's just the sex thing... hmm, nothing a little wine can't take care of I suppose. But does that make me an escort??

I'm talking to some other potentials too. It's so funny because I used to drag out the process, but now I'm all about talking on the phone soon if we like each other's pictures and then if the phone conversation goes well, meeting in person asap. Once in person, everything can be figured out so much more quickly and efficiently.

I think that I want 1 Main SD and then maybe 1 or 2 "fun" daddies. There's this one guy that I'm talking to (waiting to hear back from him) and he is the HOTTEST older man I have ever seen in my life. I want to climb into his pictures and do all sorts of awful, but deliciously naughty things to him.

Oh, did I mention, I was given $780 for a ONE HOUR LUNCH!?! That is so crazy!!! I really think I'm going to say to Old SD because offers like that do not come around every day. Sigh, I need to think and quick too.

Btw, when I get ready for a SD date/meeting, it's almost as if I become a different person. Not only am I a little more sophisticatedly (aka older, but still sexy) dressed, but I act different too. It's as if I go from being "college girl" to "alluring sugar baby." Okay, that's a cheesy way of putting it, but it's how I feel.

I've started to also notice what draws all these men toward me... apparently they love that I'm young, but carry myself as if I'm older. Something about the youth and maturity (well, I don't claim actual maturity, but I know how to act mature, be articulate, and I like to think that I carry myself with poise and class) really turns them on. I have literally been called "a treat" by every single potential SD I've met. It's a weird pattern lol.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Okay, really this time: WTF

There's this one pot that I've been talking to for a while (before I left for both of my trips this summer - not Golden SD) and so far he has seemed completely genuine, interested, and enamored. I really thought he might be the one (SD speaking that is, of course lol). Suddenly, tonight he sends me a text that says he'll have to pass on any arrangement with me because he has a feeling in his gut that this wouldn't end positively between us. That's near exact wording too. What was he even trying to say?? We haven't even met in person (we were supposed to in a couple weeks). This is so random. I'm sane enough to handle being told the reason... not just some vague sentiment. Ugh, and what sucks is that I've told him some personal information. Nothing too in depth (ie: he couldn't stalk me unless he really invested his energy, time, and money into it), but more than I've told any other pot. Now it's just going to feel weird knowing that someone out there knows the town I went to high school in (it's a fairly small town). Lesson #343 learned: Don't tell anything remotely personal until I meet a pot SD in person, and even then... keep a fairly tight lip.

Anyways, now that I'm actually nearing up to the time when I am able to physically meet pot SDs, they all disappear!!!! Talk about irony!

Send me some sugar luck, my ladies. :) I need it!

On two completely unrelated side notes, I'm thinking of creating a blog where I just post my favorite pictures I come across (I know, original lol) and I've just recently started eating "paleo" and WOW... I have never had so much energy. I feel like the energizer bunny during my daily jogging now!

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

New Profile

So I've deleted my old one (hope those last messages I sent are still able to be read!) and created a new one on SA.com. This will be my 3rd profile. It seems like 1 month is the life expectancy of a hot profile... in fact, after 3 weeks, everything starts to die out. I suppose it just gets lost among the mix of other profiles screaming "ME!! PICK ME!!"

Every time I've created a new profile (err.. all two times haha), I've taken a slightly different approach. The content is more or less the same, but the style and wording are both switched up. I also use different pictures. Here's the thing that creeps me out though... this one guy in NYC has messaged all three of my profiles - even the brand spankin new one that just got approved at 3 this morning!! Okay, maybe he's just genuinely interested in who he thinks is behind the profile, you may be thinking.... No, I'm pretty sure he knows it's me. In fact, I even spelled it out for him with my 2nd profile (aka "We've talked before and discovered that we weren't a good match). The fact that he addressed me in this recent message by the name I told him when I originally talked to him with my 1st profile gives it all away. Sigh... the creepiest part is that we have the exact same last name. Anyways... moving on.

Do you SBs feel like it's a smart move to create a fresh profile every now and then? I do so mainly because since I'm not a premium member, my profile gets pushed far back after a while.