1. I'm not looking to be an escort or a future wifey. This means no meet-and-fucks and no men who want to groom me for marriage or babies. Let's find a happy medium - the perfect friends with benefits situation.
2. An SD who can teach me stuff. All kinds of stuff. Anything and everything (although useful stuff is preferable). Teach me about wine, how to sail, the stock market, the best way to cook XYZ, business, law, politics, history - just something. I want to be mentored; I want to grow. My SD should want to enhance my brain and future along with my bank account and shoe collection.
3. An allowance. Freedom from financial woes and the freedom to pursue my dreams and ambitions.
4. Great sex, for both of us. This means chemistry and a connection is very, very important.
5. A certain level of discretion. I don't expect to lurk through alleyways with my SD and stand three feet apart at all times, but let's not scream logistics from the mountains either. Nobody needs to know that he gives me an allowance or our titles of SD and SB. In addition, privacy - I respect my own and his and wouldn't be comfortable if he didn't feel the same way.
6. A little shopping... a little spoiling... I can't help but get a little (okay, a lot) turned on by a man who is enthusiastic about indulging me. It makes me want to return the favor and more.
7. And now more specifically about the SD (I'm just going to ramble on about what my perfect SD would be like - naturally, I'm not using this as a literal checklist... although the gentleman part is nonnegotiable) - I want a complete gentleman. Someone who is considerate and kind, not just to me or other pretty girls, but to everyone in general. Witty, with a dry sense of humor and a way with words (nothing is more attractive). Dominant, aggressive, and almost too confident (especially in the bedroom). Generous, of course. And intelligent, but without the need to remind people that he is so. Physically wise, think handsome in a Bond way (aka looks great in a suit and can kick ass at the same time).
Ah, if I ever do meet a SD just like that in #7, I will be in trouble because my little heart will start fluttering, butterflies will stage a coup d'etat on my brain, and I will melt into a puddle of lustful bliss. Reason will cease to exist within me and you'll probably end up reading some very angst-ridden blog posts should the fling crash. Let's just stick with gentlemanly, articulate, and generous for now. ;)
In the real world... I'm staring down a list of last minute college stuff that needs to be taken care of before I board a plane next week. Immunization. . . checking up on my residency status. . . harassing someone at the college until they let me register for classes early so I don't get stuck with the crappy ones (I'm going to be abroad during regular orientation). Not to mention, I have to take my math placement test online tomorrow!! Thank god for to-do lists.
On a lighter note, I bought two fantastic summer dresses from Banana Republic the other day. They didn't look so hot on the hanger, but I tried them on anyways and WOW - not buying them was not an option!
Have a great week all!
xo sugar kisses,
MM
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