Pot SDs

Golden SD - He's in his (I'm pretty sure late) 40s, Ivy League educated, started and owns his own business in the finance/real estate world, and - according to him - is an avid soccer player (he played in college) and runner.  He's married and has young kids.  So far, he is the top runner.  We've talked on the phone quite a few times and all of our conversations were enjoyable.  I really like his voice lol.  He is a complete gentleman and is more than courteous on the sexual front aka he's not breathing down my neck with poorly-done innuendoes.  On the binary scale of attraction (0 = hell no, 1 = ok), he gets a 1, at least now he does.  I've seen pictures and we've Skyped, but I can't meet in person until July since I'm going to be traveling.  I'm crossing my fingers that we have a connection in person, especially as he is more than agreeable about an allowance and I'm sensing signs he may be up for spoiling as well (he asked me my favorite brand of heels and suggested Jimmy Choo - good boy lol).  

DomSD - Eh, I don't really consider him a SD potential anymore, but let's go ahead and put him on the list as a formality.  In all honesty, if we clicked in person (and I am planning on meeting him later to find out), I'd probably just... err, date him the old-fashioned way.  And by date, I mean fuck because I'm 97% sure he's an incredible lay.  Oh how I love rough sex done right.    

GW SD - Ha, that's a little joke since he put George Washington as his name before telling me his identity.  He's also in his 40s, quite handsome, owns his own financial business, and has done this before.  He's married and his personality is open and considerate.  He offered to fly me to DC to see if we click and I'm going to take him up on it once I'm back from abroad.  He's a strong potential.

ATL SD - The only problem with this Pot is that he doesn't want to begin any form of arrangement until I pretty much put out.  I asked him if he understood that I wanted to become comfortable before becoming intimate with my SD and he said that in the same light, he wouldn't do anything past typical date stuff until we started sleeping together, which means zero allowance, spoiling, anything.  I'm iffy on this because it sounds like tit-for-tat to me.  I don't expect him to start doling out the dough and buying me a pony, the moon, and a small island, but his attitude toward a SD/SB arrangement strikes the wrong chord within me.  We'll have to see about this one.  

Midwest SD - There are two things I must mention about this Pot.  #1:  When I asked him what his secret talent was (getting to know each other email), this was his response.  "My secret talent is hmm.... Staying hard after I cum and can keep going lol..."  How do you respond to that?  I mean, while it definitely isn't a bad thing, it's a bit TMI for a first email.  #2:  He uses his work email for his SA account and for communicating to SBs.  This just rubs me the wrong way because it makes me question whether or not he can handle the whole discretion and privacy thing.  Not to mention, the address of his business and a collection of phone numbers are in his signature... uhm, I could be a psycho stalker chick who wants to blackmail you, Mr. Midwest SD.  On the bright side, we both share a love for mint chocolate chip ice cream.  Yay, silver lining.  I guess we could have marathon sex (since apparently he's like a never-ending version of the Little Engine That Could) and then eat ice cream.  From his pictures, he does have an attractive body.  We'll see, darlings.